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Cultivating Relationships: Friendship

January 2, 2017

If you don’t, you’ll be emotionally attached to someone that drives you crazy, betrays you, or hurts you. That doesn’t sound like fun at all. You probably wouldn’t want to yell “FRIENDSHIP!” to a person that wasn’t that nice to you. So get to know the folks that interest you and open yourselves up to those that value you and value themselves. (Sounds so cheesy, but man! It’s true.)​

Be Loyal​
I’m sure you’ve had a friendship go rotten. You’ve probably been betrayed. It hurts. It’s not the best, that’s for sure. (And, remember, “friendship” and “best” are synonymous for me.) You know that saying – “Be the change you want to see in the world”? Well, transform that idea a little bit and you can get to: “Be the friend you want to have.” (Word magic!)​

Keep In Touch
​Don’t neglect what’s important to you. If you have a great time with someone or feel like you really connect with them, invest in that relationship. That’s how strong friendships are made. Time is precious and sharing it with another person in a casual and comfortable way is an easy way to feel happy. “Hangin’ out.” When no one’s working, no one’s leaving a voicemail,  and when there’s just enough time carved out of the evening to complain about how broke we all are.

​Surprise Them​
Friendships can become stale just like any other relationship. The best way to keep that from happening is to keep it fresh. (Go figure.) Surprise them with a little gift. Send them a random note. Stop in their workplace with an iced coffee. Share with them something that excites you.​

Don’t Grow In A Monoculture​
Just like corn shouldn’t all be grown together and soy shouldn’t all be grown together, people shouldn’t all be grown together either. Diversity is an imperative in biology. Human tribes and communities are no different. ​I have local food friends, and book friends, and TV/movie friends, and yarn friends (not friends made out of yarn (I’m not crazy) but friends that also enjoy knitting and crocheting). ​Some friends are almost-everything friends. These friends and I are freakishly like-minded. They might not read Cormac McCarthy books or e.e. cummings poems, but that’s alright. I’ve got another friend for that.

​Mix it up a little bit
As complex individuals, it only makes sense that we nurture a complex range of friendships.​Now, if you’ve finished this post and Randy Newman’s song “You’ve Got A Friend In Me” hasn’t popped into your head yet, then I didn’t do it right.

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Thursday’s “Share Your Inspiration” Segment

January 2, 2017

I decided to start doing a little link-loving this week. I want to share with you some of the stuff from the wicked-wonderful-world (that’s what “www” stands for, right?). I am continuously thrown off and delighted when I find out how certain things are made, especially when I spent my whole life thinking that these objects were just born into existence (somehow. it’s possible). I had no idea what went into the perfect ballet shoe.

I’ve never tried ballet. Have you? Have you secretly dreamed of being a lithe, graceful dancer? Jenna’s stories is one of my favorites and I follow her blog religiously (seriously. no joke. I like that we have the same name). The other-Jenna (of Cold Antler Farm) has recently been posting about the lambing that’s going on at her place (she lost a lamb this morning… sad face) and about some the work she’s been doing with Jasper. She’s an incredible writer and posts often enough that you feel as if her life is an open-book documentary that is intriguing, powerful, and (of course) inspiring. (I will own a horse! I will play fiddle! I will pull off a workin’ pair of boots!)

The Insides of Artists: Oh, whatever. Why didn’t I come up with this marvelous idea? Because I didn’t and (yeah!) I’m a little down on myself about it. I suppose another hidden blessing behind the wicked-wonderful-world is that it keeps me humble.

The Eagleman Stag: Don’t ever stop, stop-motion animation. Because I love you so. Also (side note): how can white paper be so vibrant?!

This is what’s inspired me this week. What have I done with that inspiration? Well, I helped Mr. UpCountry finish building the raised beds and I sifted dirt into them. I washed half of my dishes this morning (haven’t learned the lesson yet that I should just wash them all in one fell swoop instead of dragging this misery out FOREVER). I spent the day thriftily shopping for little bits and nibbins to put into my Mother’s Day gift baskets (Mr. UpCountry has a mother, too). So what if none of my actions created something unnerving, breath-taking, or inspiring. There’s enough beauty in the world that I can do my part simply by enjoying it and giving it proper credit.

You’re beautiful, www. I’m a part of you, and with sweat and dirt-crusted hands, feverish notes and sighing with equal parts curiosity and fear, I enjoy you. Quite a bit.

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Herbal Profile: Oregano

January 2, 2017

The final harvest of oregano occurred last week (maybe the week before). The oregano in our raised beds fully served us this year. A member of the mint family, it kept bugs at bay as a
natural pesticide (though it has no affect on cabbage worms). I also harvested it all throughout the summer months, drying it in my pantry and storing it in Ball jars for culinary and
medicinal uses.

Culinary usage? Simple. Use it whenever a recipe calls for oregano or experiment in your kitchen by adding oregano to your own creative recipes. Medicinal usage? Well, by golly, oregano has been known to help with the following ailments and disorders: indigestion, bloating, coughs, urinary problems, bronchial problems, and headaches.

It seems to me that oregano tea is a safe bet whenever you’re not feeling well. It certainly can’t hurt. You can even use unsweetened oregano tea as a mouthwash or gargle. It’s good for the teeth!

Oregano is also ridiculously useful as a topical treatment. It’s packed full of antioxidant and antiviral oils. Have you ever handled oregano? Handling the leaves causes my fingertips to get sticky and fragrant. I love the smell of oregano. Yes, that is why I always have my fingers up to my nose. Grind oregano into a paste (mix pulverized, dry oregano with water) and apply it topically for relief of: rheumatism, aching muscles, and swelling. Add a ‘sachet’ of oregano to a bath for relaxation. (Don’t fall asleep in there. I’m always worried my readers are falling asleep in their bathtubs.)

An herbalist taught me how to make oregano oil this past summer. Add fresh oregano leaves to olive oil and leave undisturbed in a cool, dark place until the leaves have become transparent. Remove leaves and keep oil in a dark glass container to avoid sunlight. Oregano oil can be used topically on toothaches.It’s a simple thing to plant in the garden. It requires little care and reaps loads of benefits. Treat your nose, your body, your garden, and your tastebuds. If you had oregano in your garden this year and it’s drying in your pantry, divvy it up for multiple uses or keep it all together in airtight jars for easy access when needed. If you didn’t have the pleasure of growing oregano this year, keep it in mind when you’re pouring over seed catalogues this winter and spring or look for it at local garden centers.

Grow it in a window or container in a sunroom. Have it around, for pete’s sake! Do you have any uses for oregano that you’d like to share? Go ahead and tell us all about it with a Comment! 

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Rural Communities and Living

January 2, 2017

In the past couple of months, I reported on a series of meetings in the town of Madawaska, that involved their recent budget crisis and how they were going to handle taking significant cuts to their budgets without losing essential services. The situation is so scary for all Madawaska residents – discussions for cuts included reducing full-time coverage from the police department and eliminating teaching positions (to the point that the local high school wouldn’t be able to offer enough math classes to prepare students for most colleges).

As awful as it is, the municipal departments and school board have poured sweat and blood over the numbers and tried to come up with solutions that would have the least negative impact on residents and local students.

As the journalist who is primarily covering this story in our area, I am unable to offer an opinion regarding proposed cuts, etc. I don’t actually mind withholding my opinion, because many (many) community members have spoken up and provided numerous perspectives about the issues at hand.

But what I can say and what I want to say is this: In the face of all this financial burden, of these hurtful remarks bandied about regarding other people’s intelligence or allegiances, and of our fear that our small towns will turn into ghost towns – I encourage us all to stay strong.To maintain courage in the face of an economy that seeks to destroy us.

To stand up for small communities and rural living and not lose sight of their inherent value.

To extend our ideas of family and neighbors to include those beyond our bloodlines and our blocks.To inspire each other to come up with creative solutions for unsettling problems.To respect each other’s ideas and beliefs and speak with intention our purpose and opinions.

To continue to love what makes us unique – our language, our landscape, our friendly merchants, our hard-working farmers and mill workers.

Keep the faith, northern Maine. We’re a people that have faced obstacles before and, just like our ancestors, we have it in our blood to fight for our livelihood.I love my small town. I can’t wait to share it with my hypothetical future children. And, from what I know of our tenacity and perseverance, it’ll still be around. The same pizza place. The same craft store. The same orange sign that starts to spin and twirl in the spring when the ice cream place is open for the season.

They’ll be here. We’ll be here. We’ll get on the other side of all this, up here, far away from the eyes of policy makers, the movers and shakers. Even if it seems we’ve been forgotten, we won’t truly be lost until we forget ourselves – the nature of the way we are and why it’s worth everything to keep it around.